I like to make goals for the new year, sometimes I make them, sometimes I don't...but I love making lists so here goes.
Things for the kids
~Read more... last year we red Charlotte's Web and they absolutely loved it.
~Play together more...Family Game Night with board games or Active video games with the Wii or Kinect
~Integrate God's Word more in their lives...I have found a few good books to help with our family devotions. And We hope to allow them to serve more in our ministry.
Being a Good Wife
~Listening more
~Not reacting so much out of anger
~Being a better help mate
Being a Better Officer
~Get organized
~Better communication
~Visit more
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
Monday, January 9, 2012
What's on my mind...
1. We have been blessed with two HIGH energy kids and with that causes distractions during the school day. Both P and J have been diagnosed with ADHD. With this diagnosis comes many decisions about medication, behavior modification, and education plans. Most states now allow for an Individualized Education Plan for children that have challenges at school. This is also known as an IEP.
We are having a hard time with the school even recognizing that there is a problem, even though they have officially been diagnosed. If a child's grades are not failing, often times the child will be denied an IEP, even if they are causing other problems in class, or having a difficulty socializing with the kids. I am wondering if anyone else is having or has had this issue. I want to make sure that I am doing all that I can for my kids. I am just incredibly frustrated with the process.
2. The kids are back in school. Maybe normalcy will return somewhat now that we can get back into a routine. Thankfully, I have my momAgenda to keep me organized :). It's my favorite splurge every year! I did try to electronically keep my calendar for a while, but there is just something about keeping everything written down.
3. Julia's Birthday Party is coming up soon. This is the first time we are going to have one where we actually invite more than a few friends. We are going to have it at the gym where she takes gymnastics. She is more than excited! :)
4. I am leaving for Israel in 26 days. Yes, the Holy Land. I get more excited by the minute.
5. God is doing amazing things in our church. I sense a spirit of unity and I am so thankful for it.
6. We have many hurting families in our church...I continue to pray for healing.
7. My family...my dad's health is failing. My sister is recovering from a serious injury. My step-mom is having to take care of so many things.
Thursday, December 29, 2011
Traditions: Family Game Night
Last night we spent two hours together playing Monopoly...one of our gifts from us to us!
It was a lot of fun and I think it may actually help our kids learn a thing or two!
In the end, Daddy was the clear winner. Philip has already called for a rematch! Stay tuned...
It was a lot of fun and I think it may actually help our kids learn a thing or two!
In the end, Daddy was the clear winner. Philip has already called for a rematch! Stay tuned...
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
A New Year...maybe more writing...again...
Many of my friends and family have gotten on to me the last few months for not sending pictures of the kids. A blog sounds like the easiest way to share our stories and so yet again, I will try my hand at this. Even if it is just a sentence, my friends and family will know what is happening...along with the rest of the world. I am not calling this a New Year's Resolution...Its not quite New Year's anyway and I don't want to jinx it!
But I will try harder.
Just so you know I am serious about it. Here are some pictures from Christmas.
But I will try harder.
Just so you know I am serious about it. Here are some pictures from Christmas.
Fake Smiles!
Here is how P--- really thought of taking pictures...
Be looking for more things in 2012...maybe even a little before!
Blessings!
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
Repost from last year's flood: I Will Never Be the Same
In the midst of the natural disasters we have had over the last few weeks, and it being the year anniversary of the May 2010 flood in the Nashville Area, I thought it appropriate to repost this blog update from last year. Because of our own disaster 12 months ago, we can bring comfort and help to those affected with experienced compassion. Know that I am praying for all that have been affected by the tornados and floods that are occuring even as we speak. I am praying for the relief workers that are currently aiding those affected as well. It will take many months to have some sort of normalcy. In fact, even now families are rebuilding from last year. But take heart, there is hope midst the storm. God be with you all!
It’s been two weeks, since this all started and I still don’t know where to begin. I lived by the Ohio River for most of my life, so flooding is not a new concept. The Rivers and creeks swell every year on spring’s normal progression to summer, leaving behind muddy water, debris, and occasional seeping into basements and homes. A few times the creeks and river crested way above flood stage. My best friend’s neighborhood was engulfed by Panther Creek in 1997. But the damage then was nothing like what we witnessed two weekends ago in the Cumberland River Valley. It was so widespread, and for a few scary hours, we weren’t sure anything was safe.
Even now the scenes creep back into my memory of the events unfolding on May 1st. The portable classroom from Lighthouse Christian Academy floating down I-24, the cars on that same portion of interstate overtaken by water, faster than some could escape from, pictures of people being rescued in the swollen creeks and rivers, on streets that looked like rivers, still race through my head. Sometimes it takes all I have not to cry. Still.
On Sunday morning, it was still raining. You couldn’t get to church even if you wanted to. A tornado went through the Rivergate area. Telephone poles, signs, and buildings, roofs, and houses were damaged. No one knows that happened, well except for those that were affected. No one is talking about it. Monday, the sun came out and for a moment you could breathe. But then the waters kept rising. When we got to the office in the Madison Community (north of Nashville), the neighborhood across the street was under water. When I say under water, I mean to the roof tops.
We weren’t really sure what Area Command had organized but knew it might take a day or two to get canteens mobilized. We just started feeding out of the van. I don’t know how people could even eat. Just thinking about all they had lost made my stomach turn. On Tuesday, it wasn’t any better. Mansker Creek had risen over the main highway into Nashville from our house. It took us three hours to get to the corps! I was so heartbroken that we couldn’t get back to help the neighborhood. That is when it hit me, it was OUR neighborhood.
The water started receding on Wednesday enough for everyone to start coming to their homes. Overwhelmed with the mess and the work that lay before them, they started coming in. Cleaning Supplies, soap, food, clothes, prayers, whatever they needed…they could find here…or from the canteen. The stories will be upon my memory forever: Guilt for not checking on neighbors they later learned had drowned; pets left on their own because there was no room on the boat, people thinking they could make it across the bridge in the vehicle only to be carried away seconds later down stream, clothes made out of garbage bags because there was nothing left.
Midst the destruction, there was one constant hope. I never had to call anyone to help out at the corps. Our corps people were here everyday taking donations, feeding the neighborhood, praying with people. I’ve never seen anything like it in my life…of course I haven’t been in a place that was hit so directly with a disaster, natural or otherwise. It wasn’t just the corps…you could see it all over the Nashville Area. Volunteers daily coming in droves to help people they don’t even know.
I am still overwhelmed today with love for my community, and love for my corps people. I am so sad that this has happened to us, but so overjoyed for the bond that I now share with this corps. There was a blog written days after the flood by Patten Fuqua ( section303). Normally, a hockey analyst he took a moment to reflect on our recent disaster. He commented on the fact that there were not many stories of looting or crime; the fact that so many people came to help rescue strangers from their homes. And at the end of it he said, “And yet…life will go on. We’ll go back to work, to school, to our lives…and we’ll carry on. In a little over a month, I’ll be on this website talking about the draft. In October, we’ll be discussing the new Predators’ season with nary a thought of these past few days. But in a way, they changed everyone in this town. We now know that that it can happen to us…but also know that we can handle it.
Because we are Nashville.”
In many ways, our corps will never be the same either. We seem tighter, woven together with a common purpose. I am so blessed to be a part of this community, the Madison community, and I thank God for placing us here. I too believe that I will never be the same. These events have changed me in a way that I could never put into words. And I am okay with that…because I too am Nashville and Nashville will forever be a part of me.
.
It’s been two weeks, since this all started and I still don’t know where to begin. I lived by the Ohio River for most of my life, so flooding is not a new concept. The Rivers and creeks swell every year on spring’s normal progression to summer, leaving behind muddy water, debris, and occasional seeping into basements and homes. A few times the creeks and river crested way above flood stage. My best friend’s neighborhood was engulfed by Panther Creek in 1997. But the damage then was nothing like what we witnessed two weekends ago in the Cumberland River Valley. It was so widespread, and for a few scary hours, we weren’t sure anything was safe.
Even now the scenes creep back into my memory of the events unfolding on May 1st. The portable classroom from Lighthouse Christian Academy floating down I-24, the cars on that same portion of interstate overtaken by water, faster than some could escape from, pictures of people being rescued in the swollen creeks and rivers, on streets that looked like rivers, still race through my head. Sometimes it takes all I have not to cry. Still.
On Sunday morning, it was still raining. You couldn’t get to church even if you wanted to. A tornado went through the Rivergate area. Telephone poles, signs, and buildings, roofs, and houses were damaged. No one knows that happened, well except for those that were affected. No one is talking about it. Monday, the sun came out and for a moment you could breathe. But then the waters kept rising. When we got to the office in the Madison Community (north of Nashville), the neighborhood across the street was under water. When I say under water, I mean to the roof tops.
We weren’t really sure what Area Command had organized but knew it might take a day or two to get canteens mobilized. We just started feeding out of the van. I don’t know how people could even eat. Just thinking about all they had lost made my stomach turn. On Tuesday, it wasn’t any better. Mansker Creek had risen over the main highway into Nashville from our house. It took us three hours to get to the corps! I was so heartbroken that we couldn’t get back to help the neighborhood. That is when it hit me, it was OUR neighborhood.
The water started receding on Wednesday enough for everyone to start coming to their homes. Overwhelmed with the mess and the work that lay before them, they started coming in. Cleaning Supplies, soap, food, clothes, prayers, whatever they needed…they could find here…or from the canteen. The stories will be upon my memory forever: Guilt for not checking on neighbors they later learned had drowned; pets left on their own because there was no room on the boat, people thinking they could make it across the bridge in the vehicle only to be carried away seconds later down stream, clothes made out of garbage bags because there was nothing left.
Midst the destruction, there was one constant hope. I never had to call anyone to help out at the corps. Our corps people were here everyday taking donations, feeding the neighborhood, praying with people. I’ve never seen anything like it in my life…of course I haven’t been in a place that was hit so directly with a disaster, natural or otherwise. It wasn’t just the corps…you could see it all over the Nashville Area. Volunteers daily coming in droves to help people they don’t even know.
I am still overwhelmed today with love for my community, and love for my corps people. I am so sad that this has happened to us, but so overjoyed for the bond that I now share with this corps. There was a blog written days after the flood by Patten Fuqua ( section303). Normally, a hockey analyst he took a moment to reflect on our recent disaster. He commented on the fact that there were not many stories of looting or crime; the fact that so many people came to help rescue strangers from their homes. And at the end of it he said, “And yet…life will go on. We’ll go back to work, to school, to our lives…and we’ll carry on. In a little over a month, I’ll be on this website talking about the draft. In October, we’ll be discussing the new Predators’ season with nary a thought of these past few days. But in a way, they changed everyone in this town. We now know that that it can happen to us…but also know that we can handle it.
Because we are Nashville.”
In many ways, our corps will never be the same either. We seem tighter, woven together with a common purpose. I am so blessed to be a part of this community, the Madison community, and I thank God for placing us here. I too believe that I will never be the same. These events have changed me in a way that I could never put into words. And I am okay with that…because I too am Nashville and Nashville will forever be a part of me.
.
Sunday, May 1, 2011
Reshaping It All
I am really excited to be involved with the 65 days to Reshaping It All! I am trying to be more intentional about my eating and my health and this book brings it all in! You should check it out and see what its all about!
Monday, April 25, 2011
How to Prepare for a Move...
Just a disclaimer here...we are not moving this year! We, however, have moved many times in our 9 years as officers so I wanted to share some of our experience with you.
6-8 weeks before move
You got the call. Start working on your brief now. I now keep the brief up every year so this is not a chore to do when we actually should be packing and taking care of stuff in the corps.
Go ahead and check about schools and day care facilities in the area. Many times preschool registration has already begun and it would be wise to get your children in before the move. If you live close enough to make a visit do that as well.
Request records for all doctors. It sometimes takes a few weeks to get this from them so it is better to start early. I keep a binder with dividers for each member of the family (don't forget your pets!) I have every record from birth. That way when I go to the next community I copy every record I have and hand them an entire folder. More than likely they won't look through it, but they will have the complete case there. Especially, if you or your child has to go to a specialist. I do this for dental records, as well as pediatrician.
Some divisions require you to submit a moving plan to them prior to your move. This would include all costs associated with your move. Get quotes from several moving companies/or trucks, and estimate how much you will spend for food and hotel as well as gas on your way to your new appointment. Submit this to the DC and stick to it! The farther your new appointment is the more expensive a truck will be, because you pay by mileage.
Reserve Truck or Moving Company
5 weeks
Finish up any doctors visits before you leave and get a copy of any final paper work. That way you don't have to immediately search for a phsyician and make a hasty decision. I don't usually take the previous officers word for doctors, until I have thoroughly researched them all. If you need specialists, then you can go ahead and research those as well. I go to websites like momapedia because they will have local reviews on phsycians/dentists and even schools and daycare facilities.
Start packing up wall decorations, picture frames, and all non-essentials. Pack up out of season clothes and coats.
Finish your brief if you haven't already.
Make a punch list of all repairs/ painting/ and maintenance that needs to be done and make calls. Schedule with local companies. This would include: Carpet cleaning
painting, air duct cleaning, chimney sweep, air conditioner/heater maintenance, etc. If you have pets you will want to have apholstry cleaned as well.
Start decluttering, if you haven't used it in this house, you won't use it in the next.
If you haven't already contacted your successor, make sure you do so. Get some personal information that would be helpful in introducing them to your board, employees and corps members. Get a picture to help put a face to the name. Schedule a visit with them if you feel comfortable.
Email copy of brief to DC and incoming officer
4 Weeks
Any rooms that aren't used, go ahead and clean them from top to bottom. Pack up everything and shut the door. If you have a garage, use that as your staging area.
If you are going to paint, I would suggest going muted colors. Sometimes those that follow you will want to come and pick paint colors themselves. Have that conversation with them to find out. There is no reason to pay for something that they be will changed anyway.
Buy new linens (1 set for each bed) white or something nutral that matches the room. Buy White towels but only one per person. They will buy what they want when they arrive. The key is to have necessaties available, but not to go over board so they can buy what they want. If you need to replace any pots and pans/dishes ect., do that now as well.
Start thinking about your farewell sermon. Make plans for your farewell (nine times out of ten you plan it anyway.) We have often times made it on another day besides Sunday, so that the last Sunday is not too long of a day. Go ahead and make program for farewell.
3 Weeks
Start packing up everything else. Keep out a few movies and board games to keep the kids busy when you are working. But now you should only have out the bare minimum. The less stuff you have makes it easier to clean. If you are going to have a company come and clean your house, make sure you make that appointment now.
Contact the officer you are following to work out when you will arrive at the house. Do the same for the family that is following you.
Find out what food the family would like to have waiting for them. Buy a small welcome gift for kids and maybe a nice plant and card for the officers moving in.
Plan or appoint people in corps to plan and execute the welcome. Order any food/catering/or cake and arrange for the pick up on the date.
Make arrangements for Local Newspaper to run a story on the new corps officers so that they can be introduced to the community.
Plan welcome Sunday program for new officers. Sometimes DHQ will invite themselves to come speak at the welcome. Coordinate that with DHQ.
Send out new address and phone numbers to friends and family
2 Weeks
Clean and pack your office. Try to start a file on your desk for projects that will be waiting the corps officer when they come. Copy new officer on any new email correspondance that they would need to be aware of.
If you need to stay in a hotel on your way to your new appointment, or to make the cleaning stick (with kids it would not do me any good to clean if the kids were still around), go ahead and make those reservations. We usually stay in a hotel on Saturday night. The kids play in the pool, and I do my last minute walk through with the board or corps member.
Send letter announcing arrival of new corps officer to all pertinant contacts like United Way/ Store Managers for Kettles/ Civic Clubs/ Community Partners
1 Week
Enjoy the last week with your corps people. Let your kids have final playdates with friends.
Clean and pack up last of the house. Load onto Truck. Take unwanted things to thrift store or have yard sale (if you are bold)
Have farewell party and or Sunday.
The important thing is to do things ahead of time so you are not rushed at the end! I will probably add to this list, so check for updates! Add you own ideas in comments!
6-8 weeks before move
You got the call. Start working on your brief now. I now keep the brief up every year so this is not a chore to do when we actually should be packing and taking care of stuff in the corps.
Go ahead and check about schools and day care facilities in the area. Many times preschool registration has already begun and it would be wise to get your children in before the move. If you live close enough to make a visit do that as well.
Request records for all doctors. It sometimes takes a few weeks to get this from them so it is better to start early. I keep a binder with dividers for each member of the family (don't forget your pets!) I have every record from birth. That way when I go to the next community I copy every record I have and hand them an entire folder. More than likely they won't look through it, but they will have the complete case there. Especially, if you or your child has to go to a specialist. I do this for dental records, as well as pediatrician.
Some divisions require you to submit a moving plan to them prior to your move. This would include all costs associated with your move. Get quotes from several moving companies/or trucks, and estimate how much you will spend for food and hotel as well as gas on your way to your new appointment. Submit this to the DC and stick to it! The farther your new appointment is the more expensive a truck will be, because you pay by mileage.
Reserve Truck or Moving Company
5 weeks
Finish up any doctors visits before you leave and get a copy of any final paper work. That way you don't have to immediately search for a phsyician and make a hasty decision. I don't usually take the previous officers word for doctors, until I have thoroughly researched them all. If you need specialists, then you can go ahead and research those as well. I go to websites like momapedia because they will have local reviews on phsycians/dentists and even schools and daycare facilities.
Start packing up wall decorations, picture frames, and all non-essentials. Pack up out of season clothes and coats.
Finish your brief if you haven't already.
Make a punch list of all repairs/ painting/ and maintenance that needs to be done and make calls. Schedule with local companies. This would include: Carpet cleaning
painting, air duct cleaning, chimney sweep, air conditioner/heater maintenance, etc. If you have pets you will want to have apholstry cleaned as well.
Start decluttering, if you haven't used it in this house, you won't use it in the next.
If you haven't already contacted your successor, make sure you do so. Get some personal information that would be helpful in introducing them to your board, employees and corps members. Get a picture to help put a face to the name. Schedule a visit with them if you feel comfortable.
Email copy of brief to DC and incoming officer
4 Weeks
Any rooms that aren't used, go ahead and clean them from top to bottom. Pack up everything and shut the door. If you have a garage, use that as your staging area.
If you are going to paint, I would suggest going muted colors. Sometimes those that follow you will want to come and pick paint colors themselves. Have that conversation with them to find out. There is no reason to pay for something that they be will changed anyway.
Buy new linens (1 set for each bed) white or something nutral that matches the room. Buy White towels but only one per person. They will buy what they want when they arrive. The key is to have necessaties available, but not to go over board so they can buy what they want. If you need to replace any pots and pans/dishes ect., do that now as well.
Start thinking about your farewell sermon. Make plans for your farewell (nine times out of ten you plan it anyway.) We have often times made it on another day besides Sunday, so that the last Sunday is not too long of a day. Go ahead and make program for farewell.
3 Weeks
Start packing up everything else. Keep out a few movies and board games to keep the kids busy when you are working. But now you should only have out the bare minimum. The less stuff you have makes it easier to clean. If you are going to have a company come and clean your house, make sure you make that appointment now.
Contact the officer you are following to work out when you will arrive at the house. Do the same for the family that is following you.
Find out what food the family would like to have waiting for them. Buy a small welcome gift for kids and maybe a nice plant and card for the officers moving in.
Plan or appoint people in corps to plan and execute the welcome. Order any food/catering/or cake and arrange for the pick up on the date.
Make arrangements for Local Newspaper to run a story on the new corps officers so that they can be introduced to the community.
Plan welcome Sunday program for new officers. Sometimes DHQ will invite themselves to come speak at the welcome. Coordinate that with DHQ.
Send out new address and phone numbers to friends and family
2 Weeks
Clean and pack your office. Try to start a file on your desk for projects that will be waiting the corps officer when they come. Copy new officer on any new email correspondance that they would need to be aware of.
If you need to stay in a hotel on your way to your new appointment, or to make the cleaning stick (with kids it would not do me any good to clean if the kids were still around), go ahead and make those reservations. We usually stay in a hotel on Saturday night. The kids play in the pool, and I do my last minute walk through with the board or corps member.
Send letter announcing arrival of new corps officer to all pertinant contacts like United Way/ Store Managers for Kettles/ Civic Clubs/ Community Partners
1 Week
Enjoy the last week with your corps people. Let your kids have final playdates with friends.
Clean and pack up last of the house. Load onto Truck. Take unwanted things to thrift store or have yard sale (if you are bold)
Have farewell party and or Sunday.
The important thing is to do things ahead of time so you are not rushed at the end! I will probably add to this list, so check for updates! Add you own ideas in comments!
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